Incredibly self-absorbed

I only wish I could extricate myself from the clutches of self-absorbed guys a lot better than I have in the past. Apparently when you want to call it quits indefinitely, his ego claws and claws at you, trying to save face at your expense. It's so hard to maintain respect on the way out, and I am tempted to want to sling mud back at him.

Ate was right. Most guys who are in their late 20s and still not settled down are selfish and only date and have nowhere relationships just for their own self-gratification. The other set of guys who are still single are probably just unlucky. I thought I was fine with that (just dating because there's this guy who's so into me), that seeing someone every so often isn't such a bad idea, until I realized how serious it can quickly become with the wrong guy. After two weeks of getting past the crush haze and sifting through all his bola, I've become slightly attached already. It's not a lot, but it's still enough attachment to be a little bummed over.

It's too soon for me to be dealing with guys...I just got back from a fun vacation, and I'm going through good-time withdrawals. Life's too short to deal with people who always think that the problem is everything and everybody but them.